Ethics for Children FAQ

Below you will find some basic information that will help you make the most of your experience with us.

What time should I arrive?
Most children arrive around 10:45 so they have time to play and get oriented before the program starts at 11. After being signed in by a parent, children are welcome to join in supervised play.

When and where is the pickup?
Children will either be in the PolyPrep playground or the BSEC meeting hall at 12:30 pm. You must
be on-site at BSEC to pick up your child at 12:30. Please be sure to check with the teacher before you leave.

Can parents participate in the classroom?
Of course! Parents are always welcome to join us.

Can parents attend the free adult platforms while the kids are in class?
Absolutely! Our platforms are open to all, so feel free to attend and bring friends. And EfC parents are considered active participants of the society, so look for your name tags starting in October. They will be waiting for you at the welcome table at the platforms if you chose to attend.

Can my child bring friends?
Yes. Anyone is welcome to try the program before registering.

What should I do if my child has to miss a class?
If you are unable to attend a particular week, we request that you email your child’s teacher to let them know your child will not be in attendance so that they can plan effectively.

How do I get more involved as a parent?
Come to our Ethical Education meetings! Teachers and parents meet one Sunday a month from 1-2 pm in the BSEC office. Check out our calendar or ask one of our teachers.

Who should I contact if I have questions, concerns or suggestions?
We strive to make the program work for every child. Please feel free to reach out to our director, Taty Sena at any time: efc@bsec.org.

Trial class for Ethics for Children

Dear parents

We would love to have your children try out our Ethics for Children class.  All our classes are Sundays from 11am to 12:30.
We currently have 3 classes:
Exploring Ethics (ages 3-6) – parents are welcome to drop off the kids or stay in the class with them
Growing Ethics (ages 7-9)
and
Living Ethics (ages 10-12)

If you have teens interested in our program, please contact us about our Coming of Age program.

To learn more about each class, please click here.  

To see our calendar for this year, please click here

Free adult talks are also available at the Society at the same time as the children classes, and EFC parents are welcome to attend them if they are interested.
Please complete the form below to sign up for one of our trial classes:

Sample Syllabus

                                                                                            Year: 2017-2018

EXPLORING ETHICS SYLLABUS

Teacher: Simba Yangala

The world is changed by our examples, not by our opinions. Examples are one of the best ways to teach. Each one, reach one, to teach one

                                                                             -African proverb

One of the core values of ethical culture is to elicit the best in others and therefore in ourselves. How do we use that concept with young children here at Ethics for Children? I find the best way to teach this age is through plays and what we call “teachable moments.”

Play fosters intellectual, social, emotional, physical and creative development in children all at once!  When children engage in play, they are intrinsically motivated to learn. In an environment with children, the lack of proper stimulation creates boredom and too much stimulation creates uncertainty and chaos. The challenge is to keep the balance with short ethical discussions, storytelling and idea sharing. And also a snack is always a hit with children

Here is our Exploring Ethics group two semesters syllabus for September- January

SEPTEMBER

“Seeing the best in others to bring out the best in ourselves”

Theme: Welcome

Sun 10th: Meet and greet, how to create inclusion and our own spaces. Children will share stories about a time they’ve felt welcome and included. Together we will explore the importance of friendly welcomings
Story: A Sea of Pink
Song: Make new friend and keep the old one

Sun 17st:  The word “friend”, we use the word friend in ways to define our kind intention to others. When we meet in our Exploring Ethics group, we are friends. Children will draw a name from a box and that will be the friend to write a letter to that will be sent to them in a week. They will also write a letter to self.

Sun 24th: NO EFC

OCTOBER

“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.

Theme: Courage

Sun 1st: Yoga Sunday Before Yoga teacher comes, we will do our mantra leading into children sharing what they would like to be when they grow up. After yoga, children will do the Flowers and candles meditation.

Sun 8th: NO EFC (Indigenous Day previously called Columbus Day)

Sun 15nd: NO EFC (Ethical Education Retreat Weekend)

Sun 22nd: Gardening Day: “Families Care for the Earth Day” Leaves and roots for the fall

Sun 29th: Ethics For children Service Sunday

NOVEMBER

“A feeling of gratitude and seeing ways to find richness in every moment.”

Theme: Abundance

Sun 5th: Yoga Sunday. Share a dance for abundance: Children will share their dance moves and create a wave of combine dances together.
Story: Stories about things they’ve received

Sun 12th: Cooking Day, children will be in the BSEC kitchen cooking something to taste and share with others at lunch with the bunch. (Congolese cuisine: Smoked spinach)

Sun 19th: Intergenerational Platform: WAMPANOAG Native American Ceremony!

Sun 26th: NO EFC (Thanksgiving Break)

DECEMBER

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, this moment today is a gift, that’s why we call it the present”

Theme: Hope

Sun 3rd: Yoga Sunday. After yoga, children will do “Hope message on a rock”, it’s an activity in which they will write hopeful messages on a rock and place it somewhere outside for someone to find.

Sun 10th: Hopes for our families, (will get note from Lea’s class)

Sun 17st: Intergenerational Platform: WINTER SOLSTICE CELEBRATION!

Sun 24th: NO EFC (Winter Break)

Sun 31st: NO EFC (Winter Break)

JANUARY

“A storyteller make up things to help other people, a liar make up things to help themselves”

Theme: Intention

Sun 07th: Yoga Sunday for all EFC together and after is Gardening Day: “Families Care for the Earth Day” seeds for the winter

Sun 14th: NO EFC (Martin Luther King’s Day)
Monday January 15th 2017, Families Celebrate Africa on Martin Luther King Day

Sun 21st: Ethics For children Service Sunday

Sun 28th: Children will do the Yes and No game, will do activity in which they share things that are Yes okay to do and things that are No. We will explore the question, what do you do when you want to do something that’s a No?
Story: Things we like to do

 

Storytelling: communicating an ethic of love. 

2017-2018 September- January Syllabus

Teacher: storäe michele.

We carry our stories with us into every aspect of our lives. They engage in our personal and social relationships. Inevitably, the stories we tell ourselves manifest into the selves we present in the world. Thus, nurturing ourselves with stories that serve to produce our best self, set in motion interactions that allow for brave space to be intentional in our actions, and approach situations with the willingness to grow and have healthy reflective perspectives.

This year our storytellers will write stories of love: for themselves, family and community—investigating ways in which love is ethical engagement.  As Dr. Cornel West declares, “Justice is what love looks like in public,” and as an ethic, provides a deeper meaning for the heart-work we do—not just simply right-actions but embodied right-relations that demonstrate our stories of love.

You will notice the Semptember class descriptions are quite specific, while the November-January plans are more general. This is intentional. As we continue to work together as a group I want to allow room for the class plans to reflect new thoughts ideas and opportunities.

I am honored to be on this journey of sharing stories, activism and ethics-making with our Growing Ethics group!

September. Chapter 1 [Welcome: “bringing out the best in others, brings out the best in ourselves.]

This month will welcome each other, discussing our year-long goals.

9.10 After exploring our syllabus, we will create a landscape roadmap of our hopes and dreams for the year, marking any special or noteworthy moments on this journey. We will also engage in writing a hopes and dreams letter to ourselves, which will be mailed at the end of the year to encourage thoughtful reflection.

9.17 Working towards [re]introductions: embodying the narrative of those who love us.  In our group, we will [re]introduce ourselves after delving deeper into discussions on who we are. Using performance theory exercises, we will introduce ourselves while embodying someone who loves us. Answering the question, “who are the people you are bringing into the room?” recognizing that we carry the stories that others tell about us. How does this change our perspectives of self?

9.24 No EFC.

October. Chapter 2 [the courage to speak our truths]

This month will begin to unpack our personal stories, questioning how they evolve or stay consistent—grounded in inquiries around self-love, honoring peculiarities, and speaking our truths.

10.1 We will begin our alter-ego books—which will be our year-long tool for reflection and artistic response to each weeks’ topic.  Alter-ego books are created from old books that we will [re]construct to develop a brave space, taking off our everyday mask and speaking to our truths.  What are our truths? How do they align with the self we show in public? In community?  What are tools we already have when speaking to difficult situations? How do we acknowledge our courageous acts? We will have yoga with Heather from 12-12:30pm.

10.8 No EFC.

10.15 No EFC.

10.22   Family Care for the Earth Day.

10.29   Service Day.

November. Chapter 3 [We live in abundance]

This month will begin to unpack our community stories, questioning how to approach the needs to thrive in our society. Our guiding inquiries are: What is our role? Can we have an impact? How do we learn to glean understanding from each other?

11.5 Sharing our collective wisdom: we are each other’s medicine. We will discuss our do-it-yourself methods of caring for ourselves and one another. Looking at the word medicine in an expansive sense, what aliments do we see in community? What are methods of healing for special circumstances that we want to see change? Are there always opportunities for change? We will have yoga with Heather from 12-12:30pm.

*We will also create a book or video together that speaks to our own DIY medicinal recipes. This project may carry over into December. *

11.12 Revisiting tough conversations: creating brave space. Sometimes we experience circumstances that cause responses that surprise us. Living in a climate that is at once hostile and nurturing can cause us to react in ways that communicate lacking something that in actuality we always have. How can we trust the abundance that we already contain? How is a healthy dose of self-confidence and recognizing interdependence beneficial for the community at large? How do we trust our gifts are enough? How do we engage in sharing our medicine?

11.19 Intergenerational Platform: WAMPANOAG!

11.26 No EFC for Thanksgiving Break.

December. Chapter 4 [Igniting hope, Activating Love-in-Action]

This month we will work as a team to solve an interactive exploratory challenge that effects the EFC community [this well be decided on as a group]. As a team, we will explore different ways of starting and enacting a process of change. We will discuss who is affected, what difference the change will bring and what the possible ripples in the community could be.

12.3 – 12.10 How to unpack a challenge. Using different modalities that engage the imagination, such as Silent Tableaus [games for encouraging students to think physically as a group and as individuals, encouraging different methods of non-verbal communication], mixed media constructs, and strategies around approaching research. How is solving a challenge as a group, also an act of love? How does everyone thrive in these moments? How do we make sure all voices are heard? What are our learning curves? What was our process?

12.3 We will have yoga with Heather from 12-12:30pm.

12.17 Winter Solstice.

12.24 No EFC.

12.31 No EFC.

January. Chapter 5 [Setting intentions for the future, Honoring journeys in years’ Past]

1.7 Family Care for the Earth Day. We will have yoga with Heather from 12-12:30pm.

1.14 No EFC.

1.15 [Monday] Families Celebrate Africa.

1.21 Creating vision boards of the intentions we wish to see and memorials for the markers of our journey of the past year. How will the story of our past inform this year? What growth do we wish to see? Who have we seen demonstrate these strengths? What can be learned from their stories? How are we the protagonist in our stories? In what ways do we support our ability to thrive?

1.28 Service Day.

a sneak peek into the months of February to June…

As the first months together focused on understanding ourselves and those in our immediate community, this year will center in how we can remember those in society who we may not interact with personally but our daily actions affect. As the upcoming months celebrate Black History, Women’s History, Earth Day and days of remembrance of those we love, we will continue to ignite love-in-action as a social justice using art to point to those who are not always seen, but voices are necessary to be heard.

Coming soon…